Monday, April 26, 2010

The Blue Zones of Hartwell Priest

The moonstone-blue walls of the Unitarian church in Charlottesville, Virginia, were filled with her art work: watercolors of Venice and Florence created during her Wanderjahr in Europe in the nineteen twenties; lithographs of seagulls at her island in Georgian Bay, Canada, where she and her family summered for sixty years; the Jackson Pollock-like viscosities she did in old age when she dripped paint onto metal plates and then ran them through her lithograph press. This was the body of work that her 103-year-old body—thin-stalked and bent earthward like a November sunflower—had left behind. And if we mourners, fanning ourselves with programs, our faces raspberried with the late afternoon sun burning through long windows, if our eyes misted with only the occasional tear, it was because Hartwell Wyse Priest had lived long and well, and we had come to celebrate her.

She was born in Brantford, Ontario, Canada on January 1, 1901, the youngest of four children and nicknamed New Year or Newie, a name that nearly everyone in the family called her, including my mother, her niece, and me, her great-niece. Newie’s husband, a corporate lawyer who taught at the University of Virginia and to whom she was married for fifty years, was one of the few people who called her Hartwell, the maiden name of her Maine-born grandmother. At her hundredth birthday party, I heard several of her younger artist friends also call her Hartwell. But she remained forever Newie to me, a tiny, bright-eyed figure of merriment, who studied, with my six-year-old son, the pictorial guides for the birthday chocolates that her friends had brought her, ceremoniously selected a cherry-filled mound, took a humming bird-like nibble from it, then returned it slyly to the box. When the party was over, my son noticed, with a kindergartener’s sense of justice, that there were six other partially eaten chocolates. But I laughed and said that when you got to 100, you were allowed to bend the rules.

So how did Hartwell Priest live to 103, I’ve often wondered. By bending the rules? Or breaking them? In BLUE ZONES psychologist Dan Buettner studied centenarians around the globe, hoping to discover why they lived so long. In Sardinia, Italy, Okinawa, Japan, Loma Linda, California, and the Nicoya peninsula of Costa Rica, unaccountably large numbers of elderly men and women were walking several miles a day, tending their gardens, enjoying meals at home with their families. Buettner observed that these residents of blue zones--so named because one of Buettner’s colleagues had circled the areas on maps with blue pens--were alike in several significant ways: they put family first; they did not smoke; they ate a sparse, mostly plant-based diet; they lived in small communities where they enjoyed an active social network; they were engaged in constant moderate physical exercise; they were tough-minded, although they loved to laugh.

Hartwell Wyse Priest never lived in a geographical blue zone, but she inhabited a psychic blue zone, which inoculated her against many physical and emotional ills. After she graduated from Smith College in 1924, she set off for Paris to study art with Andre L’Hote, one of the leading pioneers of abstract expressionism. (Dora Maar, Picasso’s longtime mistress and muse, was also a student at L’Hote’s Montparnasse Institute.) Paris was, as Ernest Hemingway poetically described it, a “moveable feast” in those days, but there were many privileged American women who became dizzy with all the smoking, drinking, and jazz-dancing, flappers like F. Scott Fitzgerald’s wife, Zelda Sayre, who couldn’t decide whether to have fun or make art, and ending up doing neither.

But Hartwell Wyse was not one of these lost souls. For one thing, she was accompanied everywhere on the Left Bank by her sixty-two-year-old mother, Rachel Thayer Wyse, an amateur painter who, having raised four children, was keen to pursue her own artistic goals. Mother and daughter were inseparable, sketching Notre Dame Cathedral from the Pont Neuf, studying the masters in the Louvre, attending Sunday services at the Christian Science Church on the Boulevard St. Germain. Rachel was not the type to hang around Les Deux Magots drinking absinthe and smoking Gauloises Bleues, and would never have permitted her pretty daughter such Continental liberties. Did Newie chafe under such maternal restrictions? I never asked her, but I suspect that she would say she was too busy mastering her craft—learning, for example, about dynamic symmetry, upon which she would later become an authority--to worry about whether she was missing out on more quotidian sensual pleasures.

I didn’t really get to know my great aunt until she was in her early nineties and I was in my middle thirties. I was doing graduate work in English at George Mason University, and I often drove down for the weekend to Charlottesville, staying on a pullout couch in her late husband's study (A.J. had passed away in 1978). My mother, stopping for several weeks on her annual migration from Florida to Canada, was in one of the small rooms upstairs. Newie’s house, an Italianate stone mansion set on fifteen acres not far from Jefferson’s Monticello, was big enough to accommodate everyone, including the law school student, Pat, who got room and board in exchange for helping with the shopping and cooking. From time to time, Newie’s trust officer, a protégé of her late husband’s, would lecture her about moving into an assisted living facility, but Newie grumbled that she could never find a place big enough to accommodate her two studios, the basement work area which held her lithograph press, and the upstairs studio adjacent to A.J.’s, where she sketched and painted.

At 90, Hartwell Priest still followed what villagers in the Nicoyan peninsula of Costa Rica call a “plan de vida,” rising early to practice her craft. Sometimes I would join her in the kitchen when she was taking a break. She had always brewed a pot of fresh coffee and set another place at the table, laid out boxes of cold cereal and bananas. Newie’s kitchen was small, compared to the rest of the house, and contained all the original knotty-pine cabinets and beige linoleum floor, now stained and buckling, that had been installed in the fifties when she and A.J. had built the house. Newie wasn’t poor and could easily have remodeled her kitchen, but she was penurious, and hated spending money on frivolities. There was just enough room for the Formica-topped breakfast table and matching chairs, the padded red seats patched together with duct tape. It didn’t take me a Ph.D. to figure out that one of Newie’s secrets to long life was that she didn’t care that much about food. Like the Okinawan villagers who practiced Hara Hachi Bu, the Confucian-inspired practice of stopping eating when one is 80 percent full, Newie never ate to excess. Subsisting mainly on fruits and vegetables, enjoying an occasional glass of wine with dinner, she easily maintained the girlish figure she had cut decades ago in Paris.

After a morning in the studio, Newie liked to go for a long walk along the lanes and dirt roads near her home on Old Farm Road, her fat, old poodle, Alouette lumbering behind her. In the last years of her life, the walks became shorter. Newie’s son and daughter-in-law, who had moved in to the house to take care of her, set up rusted iron porch chairs at intervals along the quarter-mile driveway so that she could rest during her daily constitutionals. By then, the dog had been put down and Newie’s widow’s hump was so bad that she was bent at nearly ninety degrees over her walker. But she kept up the walks as long as she could, and when she no longer ventured outside, her son or daughter-in-law helped her locomote from her bedroom to the upstairs studio to her faded gray velvet armchair in the living room, the journey round the house the last one left for her.

Newie’s life was free of money worries, but not without its tragedies. In 1982, four years after A.J. had passed away, her younger daughter, Marianna, died of skin cancer at the age of 48. Before her illness, Marianna had divorced her Episcopal preacher husband, after discovering that he was having affairs with several women in his congregation. Marianna was a trusting, naïve soul--she and her husband had met as students at Harvard Divinity School, and she had been smitten with the tall, soft-spoken man descended from blue-blooded Boston divines. The break-up of the family was hard, especially since the couple’s children were young. The story my mother told—and, like all family stories, it may be equal parts myth and fact—was that on Marianna’s deathbed in the hospital, Marianna had said to her mother, “I wish you’d spent more time with me as a child. Your art always came first.”

Marianna’s last words, shrapnel to the brain that could never be surgically removed, must have hurt. But like the gnarled villagers in Okinawa, who had survived the “The Typhoon of Steel,” the American invasion of their island in World War II, Newie was a stoic. If she had regrets about her mothering, she kept them to herself. Instead, she sought solace in her summers at Georgian Bay, in the Prussian blue waters of Parry Sound, where she had scattered Marianna’s ashes and where her own ashes would one day fall. The glaciated rocks, the wind-beaten white pines, the gulls wheeling through the sky, the wild blueberries along the paths to her studio--all of it made her feel, in the words of the fourteenth-century mystic Dame Julian of Norwich, that "all shall well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.”

Two weeks ago, I donated one of Hartwell Priest’s lithographs, “Autumn Harvest,” to a benefit for Whole Children, a nonprofit organization in the Pioneer Valley of Western Massachusetts that offers after-school programs for special needs children. I have a stack of Hartwell Priest lithographs and unframed oils in my closet, so it wasn’t a big sacrifice. I also selected a work I wasn’t attached to, one of her Jackson Pollock-like viscosities done in green with sparks of orange.

The benefit was set up so that everyone who paid their $15O walked away at the end of the evening with a painting, if not that of their first choice, then their second or third. I paid the walk-around-and-have-fun rate of $35, which meant I didn’t get an art work but that was fine with me, as I have more art than wall space. There were more art works than patrons, which meant that some works would end up like the proverbial wallflower at the dance, unwanted and unclaimed. For much of the evening, I fretted that I hadn’t donated something that I myself was loath to part with. I stood beside “Autumn Harvest,” prominently displayed on its easel in a corner of the Northampton Center for the Arts, chatting up Hartwell Priest and her vita—“She has an etching in the Library of Congress,” I boasted--like an auctioneer at Sotheby’s. One bow-tied gentleman inspected the matted, unframed lithograph with a magnifying glass, and wanted to know whether it was computer-generated. When I quipped that my great aunt wouldn’t have known a byte if it bit her in the behind, he slunk away in a huff.

“Autumn Harvest” was claimed by a friendly, dark-haired woman from Long Island, a professional realtor and mother of two grown children, who was delighted to support Whole Children (she has an autistic nephew) and delighted to have this lithograph, which had been her first choice and which she had just the place for on her living room wall. We talked for twenty minutes, and I shared some of the highlights of my great aunt’s long life, and when we hugged goodbye we exchanged e-mail addresses.

I walked back to my car, parked just down the hill from the ivy-covered entrance arch to Smith College, wheeling in my own blue zone of happiness like one of Hartwell Priest’s gulls.

14 comments:

  1. I am taking the liberty of including the comments of Hartwell Priest's son, Paul, sent by e-mail:

    "I have just read the Blue Zones of HP. It's great. She would have liked it. It catches her quiet enthusiasm for life. There are some inaccuracies, but they don't matter - my father never smoked a pipe or anything else, and did he call her Hartwell? I can't remember! Isn't that dreadful. Around the house he hardly used any name. I do know that he loved her passionately all his life. He would address a letter, 'My own, own Presh.' They were extraordinarily easy with each other. I was amazed to find in later life that this was not always the case in marriages! The Wanderjahr in 1926 was about three or four months. As you say she was very busy and would nor have had the slightest interest in drinking absinthe or smoking gauloises!

    I think the secret of her longevity was an interior calm. She took things as they came. She believed in CS, but in a simple, non-doctrinaire way. She never objected to taking us children to the doctor. My father said he did not mind being married to a Christian Scientist since she was a sensible one. She did not dramatize herself. Nor did she soup up her pictures. She painted what she saw, and saw it simply and directly and sympathetically.

    So thank you. It is a worthy tribute."

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    1. Hartwell was my Great Aunt as well. Her Brother, Frances, was my Grandfather. I never had the honor of meeting Hartwell, altho I did exchange some letters with her.

      Who was your Mother and Grandmother?? My Mother was Kindy.

      Laura Barth

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    2. Hello Laura!

      Thanks for commenting! We are second cousins. My grandmother was Hartwell's older sister, Rebecca Wyse Kynoch, and my mother was Nancy Anne Kynoch Rice, your mother's first cousin.

      I never knew your grandfather or your mother, but heard a lot about both over the years. What a treat to make this connection.

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    3. It was great fun to read about our Great Aunt!! I have a picture that has your Grandmother in it, she is at Aunt Rae's home, I think. I used to visit Aunt Rae ( I suppose she was actually our Great Aunt Rae ) when I would go Florida to see my Grandmother and her second husband. I never knew my Grandfather, and my Mother died when I was 3. I met our Great Grandmother, Sweetheart once, I was only 4, but I DO remember meeting her and seeing her artwork. I remember Aunt Rae's house was a wonderful place to visit, she had an elevator that was like a cage!!!

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  2. Love the family story & the home the piece got for the best of causes to boot!

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  3. i have many custom cards from Hartwell to friends of hers all have wonderful cover prints and personal notes inside along with holiday wishes etc. Not sure where i got them but i have had them for many many years. Most are from the 1960's

    Bill
    bdonaldson@wightman.ca

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  4. My grandmother, Elizabeth Whitmore, ran The Print Corner in Hingham, and I've been cataloging the parts of her collection that are left, which include some wonderful Christmas card prints (including a sketch of Paul at his first Christmas) and some engravings signed as Hartwell Wyse as well as ones signed Hartwell Wyse Priest. The woman who comes through in the notes on some of the cards is every bit as wonderful as you paint her. If you'd like scans of them, I can make them for you. I ran across this Googling for more info about her work and life. If this doesn't give you access to my email, find me through tomwhitmore.com.

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  5. I enjoyed reading about Hartnell, my former beloved neighbor. I have recently published a book in which Hartwell is featured as the first profile. She was a wonderful woman indeed. My book is Aging Famously: Follow Those You Admire to Living Long and Well."

    Elizabeth Howard

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  6. Sorry Spell check tried to help me! HARTWELL'S name deserves to be correctly spelt!

    Elizabeth

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  7. Thank you, Elizabeth Meade Howard, for commenting on my blog about Hartwell Priest. I am delighted to hear that your book has been published. I am going to look for it on Amazon, and I can't wait to read it! Great title, by the way! I hope you and your family are well! Warm regards, Becky

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  8. Becky,

    Thanks for your kind comments. Hartwell was a cherished friend and neighbor. We were lucky to know her. Hope you enjoy her profile in Aging Famously!

    Elizabeth

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  9. Beautiful. I arrived at your blog today during research on the families who lived in the twin house next door to mine in Nanaimo, British Columbia. They were both built in the early 1890's, and sadly, the neighbouring house burned to the ground last summer. This was the house that Rachel Thayer Gavet Wyse and John Francis Henry Wyse lived in during their stay in Nanaimo. In 1986, a senior from the US came by my house with a picture of John and Rachel standing in front of their house, with little Rebecca in their arms. He was astonished to see his mother's house still standing, and he had drawings she had done. I found the book "A Gift of Light" that Paul Priest and Hartwell Priest put together. I will email you separately as I would love to see if Paul is still alive, and if there are more stories to uncover about the house on the hill.

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  10. Dear Craig Evans,
    Thank you so much for commenting on my blog about my great-aunt, Hartwell Priest. Sadly, her son, Paul Priest, died in September 2015. I also wrote about him in the blog piece, "Garlic & Sapphires in the Mud: Remembering Paul Priest." Like his mother, he was gifted with great intelligence and spiritual depth. I miss them both, but am grateful they can remain alive in the annals of this blog. I wish you a joyful 2019!

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  11. Hello going through my warehouse today I found a painting done by your Grand Aunt what a tribute I am maybe thinking on doing a story I hope you get this. Edixieman@aol.com. Evan Anthony 9546282895

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